Don't say you want it if you don't!

[TonyaB]

5 Days ago I got a reply on my 93 Glitters for $20 (http://myspacepros.com/forum/showthread.php?p=129579#post129579) thread:

love to get some =) plz pm me. list and prices

I PMed them the prices/details/examples, basically the 1st post, and they PMed me back the next day asking me to tag the glitters for their site, I did that and I PMed them back asking me to send money to my Paypal so I could send them the glitters. It's been 3 days and I haven't received a payment or reply back from this person.

On their profile it says "Last Activity: Yesterday 08:23 AM".
Uhh hello if you can't afford you do not need to be wasting my time by telling me to PM a list and prices to you, ohh you want these, and tag them for your site. I could have tagged someone else's that actually paid and they could have theirs quicker and not have to wait on me to tag some glitters for a person that's not even gonna bother to pay.

If you do not want these anymore, the least you could do is PM me and tell me. :rolleyes: Or if you don't have the money at the moment or will soon you could tell me that too. :whistling:

[xo.Saz.xo]

Im so fed up of people doing that, mostly it's new people trying to up their post count so they can PM about a link exchange or something unrelated to the thread they posted in, I had about 4 people say they were interested on one sale of mine, and none of them replied after I PM'ed, and they've been active since, It's annoying, and wastes time :(

[Sergio]

Welcome to the world of business.

[Jessica61981]

Yep not the only one! This has even happened to me. I even tagged a pack and ready to go because they said they were sending payment and they never did. I can understand if someone changes their mind, but it would be nice to say sorry I am not interested or etc.... (like you said) ;)

[sshjustkissme]

That sucks. =\ That's why you ask for the payment first..because you have the glitters already made. It's up to their end if they have the money or not.

..then again, there are some sellers that cheat the buyers. I'm not saying you are one.

[Incognito]

I get it a lot as well and it is frustrating.

Now i won't do any tagging until payment is made :)

[Jessica61981]

Yeah I usually don't do tagging until they paid. But when they say pament sent I thought it was sent. LOL It was my 1st and Last time for that mistake.

At lease all sellers go through this that buyers back out.

[Ad disengaged]

Im so fed up of people doing that, mostly it's new people trying to up their post count so they can PM about a link exchange or something unrelated to the thread they posted in, I had about 4 people say they were interested on one sale of mine, and none of them replied after I PM'ed, and they've been active since, It's annoying, and wastes time :(


sorry about that

making a buck is hard

[xJennax]

I got a PM from cm_reloader asking for prices as well, and I'm going to tag them a pack this afternoon...I'm going to wait until they pay before doing it.

That sucks that happened to you. =/

[Ammy]

That's horrible that it's happened to so many of you guys! Especially tagging 93 glitters, when you're selling packs like that it's so hard to find the time to tag for everyone and get them what they paid for without people like this :( You're right the least they could do is pm you telling you what's going on, and whether they are just not able to pay or they just don't want them anymore, they should have the decency to let you know.

[Scilynt]

I can see how it would get really annoying if someone did this often but also can see if from the buyer perspective. I buy a lot of crap (not crap as in bad but just a lot of stuff lol) and I often get behind and have trouble keeping track of things I have paid for or that I still need to pay for. Most of the people I buy from now know me and know that and are fine just giving me a simple reminder and I send it off lol. I don't know if this is the case with the person you are having trouble with or not but it can be hard to keep track of a lot of different conversations through pm every day. Could be as simple as they only had 15 minutes to check in during a lunch break and have just been really busy. I know I disappear for a couple days at a time sometimes just so I can get some work (or rest) done lol.

BUT if they don't follow through and have agreed to the price and had you tag for them and then never pay that is pretty close to scamming and enough to cause some problems for them.

[ituhitam]

I have this experience also, not with cm-reloader because after he tells me he wants to buy, he did paid --> have bought 2 packs from me. So i am not sure about him/her.

I have another experience also, but i don't think i need to quote name that said, interested please send paypal info bla bla bla,then i have sent pm, pager and so on, no even reply.

I actually never expect much when dealing with buyers, like if they pay for it, I will tag and deliver, but sometimes it's annoying also :p

[Kelli Lynne]

Wow that would annoy the heck out of me. Like you said you could have been working on something else. wow!! lamers!!